thoughts on spicing things up...

[contois]

thoughts on spicing things up... My gf & and have been together 5 years, living together 2 of them. It's a mutually happy & healthy relationship for the most part, but our sex life has been in doldrums territory for a while now. Pretty much at the 1-2 times/week, fairly routine, etc, stage. Recently we both decided to brainstorm ways to stoke those proverbial fires and I thought some folks on here might have input. Wouldn't us especially kinky, but we're open minded and like to have fun. Early 30s, both of us take care of our appearance & such, we spend good time together, it's mostly the gradual familiarity that's taken some of the creative spark out of things. We don't expect the "I wanna fuck you 24/7" of an early relationship, just a little more lust in our day to day, more anticipation & creativity, etc... Any thoughts? I'm curious what's specifiy worked for you guys/gals, stuff off the beaten path from the usual "watch some porn together" "date night" "massage" and the like.

[foyle]

find another couple & switch partners

[petey]

Hey Patience. Very cute booty. I would be more than happy to spank it for you.

[chiappetta]

Get in line... behind me. :P

[Cher]

Fine By me Wouldnt mind being behind you for a while either.

[Fanny]

kitty, watching you spank patience would be more fun than doing it myself.

[cullinane]

Hubby and I did a sex marathon.... 30 striaght days of sex was the mission. I thought it was going to be awful. And forced. And for the first few days it was. But because we had to be creative, like a quickie in the laundry room while dinner was on the stove, got us so excited everyday. By days 11 we were tearing eachothers clothes off. Then we had a family tragedy and our marathon ended. But it was FUN while it lasted.

[debaun]

start it over Ex SO and I tried every day for a year once. We got 3 months in but broke up over something else lol

[sera]

meh ....maybe someday. :)

[stolte]

I've read a couple accounts of that Seems like for everyone it starts a bit awkward, then actually gets hot, then life intervenes! Might be something we try tho...

[claypoole]

Go shopping together Hit your local adult fun store and pick out some toys and outfits that you both want to try. Just this activity alone can stir up some urges that may have to be taken care of in the car on the way home. Bottom line - don't wait for it to happen, make it happen. Fantasy night is fun - you tell one of yours and she tells one of hers and one night is devoted to fulfilling the fantasy.

[Shawna]

One word C-O-R-S-E-T If you have never seen your woman in a corset I swear she will look like a different woman.